We all fall into ruts every now and then, especially when we become comfortable in a great relationship. Has the flame died down in your bedroom? Here’s how to reignite those flames of passion.

First, stop vegging out in front of the television. We know that it’s been a long day, and you’re both exhausted, but sitting on the couch watching TV shows isn’t exactly quality time. Instead of zoning out in front of the boob tube, try reading a sexy book. Reading a book to each other will help reconnect you and your lover, and if it’s a sexy book like the “Kama Sutra”, or a book of romantic sonnets and love stories, you’ll reconnect in more ways than one.

Now that you’ve removed that terrible TV habit, a major relationship killer, it’s time to start planning at least one night a week to devote to romance. Need help? We have some fantastic ideas that simply cannot fail.

Romantic Ideas for Every Week of the Year

Take turns planning the romantic evening for the week with a fun game called “52 Weeks of Romance“. Included in the game is a satin pouch that contains cards for him and her to give you fresh romantic ideas for every week of the year. Even if your imagination can’t come up with something new, the cards will never fail. If you’d like to take it a step further, there is also a fantastic erotic version, “52 Weeks of Naughty Nights“.

Romance Kits Eliminate Guess Work

If you are racking your brain trying to come up with great romantic ideas, try purchasing a few romance kits. There are many that include rose petals, massage oils, bubble bath and romantic votive candles. Try the Enchanted Evening Set with two champagne glasses, scented silk rose petals, warming massage oil, and other sexy goodies, or the Romance Essentials Kit with massage oil, bubble bath, rose petals, and votive candles to help set the mood.

Satin and Lace

Never underestimate the power of sexy lingerie. Use it as a seduction tool or to act out your wildest fantasies, like a naughty nurse or maid set.

Above all, remember to change it up a bit. Routine kills relationships and romance, so keep it fresh, exciting, and interesting. Do this, and you and your lover will reconnect emotionally, spiritually and sexually.